Today was a difficult day. Sometimes, working in mental health, you have to do things that feel wrong. You have to keep reminding yourself that it’s right. Sometimes, you’re even successful in convincing yourself of that.
Today, after having gone before a Justice of the Peace to argue that a person needs to be taken to the hospital to be assessed, I had to show up at that person’s home with police. I had to help demonstrate at the hospital that she is ill enough to be involuntarily admitted for psychiatric assessment. I had to stand by while she hurled a barrage of verbal assault at me for doing this to her, all of which was valid, even if what I was doing to her was necessary. I had to wait with her in a cold, unfriendly hospital room for 7 hours while the hospital system tried to get its act together. I had to ask her if there was anyone I could call for her, knowing as I asked what the answer would be: there is no one.
And through all of that, all I could think is how awful this entire experience was for her. Here is this poor, lonely woman. Her illness prevents her from understanding what is happening or why it is necessary. All she knows is that she is surrounded by people she believes intend to harm her. She is helpless.
Today, I am thankful for my freedom. I am thankful that I am not plagued by a mental illness which necessitates involuntary confinement. I am thankful that, in my home, I feel safe from the possibility of police showing up and taking me to a strange place when I haven’t done anything wrong. I am thankful that I live in a place where I can express what I think, feel, and believe, knowing that, although I might be persecuted, I’m unlikely to be prosecuted. I am thankful that I am not targeted because of my race, ethnicity, religion, or sex, and that I feel safe to walk through my city, day or night, without any significant fear that I will be attacked. I am thankful that I live in a democracy. I am thankful for my freedom in so many ways. Most importantly, I am thankful that, if any of these things ever happen to me, I am not alone.
What does freedom mean to you? Tell me about it in the Comments.